Men/boys seem to have this notion that if a woman dresses a certain way or shows off skin that she is asking for attention. Who gave them this sense of entitlement over a woman’s a woman body? Was it their parents, their peers, someone else?
While I know that the way people were raised can affect how they are as an adult, but to me, that is just an excuse people use to lay the blame elsewhere. I myself was raised in a toxic and violent environment. While it has affected me and changed me, I don’t strive to be like my family and their toxic ways.
Every woman has experienced this at least once. Where someone inboxes them or has a face to face with a person who can’t take no for an answer and they lash out at you and act as if you owe yourself to them because they took time out of their day to talk to you.
Usually, it goes like this for me.
This entitlement is what I am talking about. I don’t owe anyone anything and the same goes for you babes. Never feel bad for turning someone down because you are not interested. As much as I hate to say this, but also be safe and keep some kind of weapon with you as some of these men will lash out physically. (If you are face to face) I love ya babes stay safe out there and never be afraid to say no.